Fashion & Love!

In the beginning of each year, countless number of people set themselves goals. These goals vary from physical, financial and social well being. Part of individuals social goals it is the need for affection, four letters. L. O.V.E, love.

Now we live in a society whereby so many expectations has been put to women in the pursue of finding love, and this pressure all has to do with their appearance more than it has to do with their true value sometimes; character, principles, education, net worth and capabilities of being a good woman. 

In case you wondering, could this be the reason why women stress over their appearance ? the answer is fairly yes, because  no one wants to feel unlovable, dull, and unstylish more especially if you are single and looking for love ! 

Just like an underwear nobody really ever sees it not unless you decide to strip down and show it, so is love both women and man should strip down their hearts and show each other their love language with clear expectations then decide whether to get into a relationship or not. 

How you present yourself it is totally up to you, Fashion is about expressing yourself, more than anything else, love what you are wearing , be comfortable and have confidence. Fashion is fickle and it demands to be embraced. One needs to be open minded, creative and have the ability to switch up characters without hesitance. Same goes with relationships one should not use the same strategy to deal with different problems, analyze, think and then ACT.  

Roses, lingerie, pearls, perfumes will not buy you love. these are fleeting virtues which makes intimacy exciting, sometimes. Honesty, communication, patience, forgiveness, kindness and understanding will always make LOVE win.

The secret to have fun in fashion; is dress up to feel good not for attention because you might get discouraged . Free your mind to accept  that not everyone has the same style and taste as you. Now that is contentment. 

What is contentment and to what extent does it apply ? The subtle art of not giving a fuck! well I haven't read that book as yet but I just think maybe that's what everybody should do, DO NOT GIVE A FUCK! be fucken sexy if you want too, not to impress people but to fulfill your wildest imaginations and live the best of your creative beautiful life.

 I will confess, for the longest period of time I believed I need a reason to look beautiful, I valued being applauded, compliments more than I had fun, appreciated my creativity and lived in the love of my outfits. But as I grow up, I am learning about selflove everyday, seeing the world for what it is, learning to love people and exploring fashion from different aspects (psychological, economical, and socially). I feel content; I DO NOT GIVE A FUCK ABOUT TROLLS. 

Show up and serve! you are enough God ordained you, be creative, have fun and live in higher power., clothes do not necessarily make people look beautiful but confidence does!